"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Question on the 7 mistakes with women

lifemisspent

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Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chromeo

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ya kinda in the same place. Lookin for a girl to settle up with, but how you do that while spinnin plates and not comin off as an AFC
 

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lifemisspent said:
Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.


i think it depends like for e.g. if its a chick in your class then be honest, or in your school, or in university because she can mess you up by telling everyone your a player who is just looking to bone girls and blah, blah, blah!
these things then you must be honest with them or they will frig you up but if its a chick you see at a club or somewhere that is not related to your workplace or any of the examples i just put above then its okay for me
 
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