"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ya kinda in the same place. Lookin for a girl to settle up with, but how you do that while spinnin plates and not comin off as an AFC
 
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lifemisspent said:
Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
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i think it depends like for e.g. if its a chick in your class then be honest, or in your school, or in university because she can mess you up by telling everyone your a player who is just looking to bone girls and blah, blah, blah!
these things then you must be honest with them or they will frig you up but if its a chick you see at a club or somewhere that is not related to your workplace or any of the examples i just put above then its okay for me
 
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