"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question on IOI's... Again

Canadian Catnip

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This happens from time to time with me. Happened with two separate women on Wednesday.

Met a women. They seem nice, friendly etc. We are in a public place with other people around. An office or restaurant, etc.

They decide that they need to tell you something or show you something. They get in a position where they have to be beside you.

Then you get her boob touching your arm or your shoulder. You don't move, she doesn't move. Both of you pretend that you are really not touching each other. After a few seconds she moves away and we both pretend it never happened.

What do you guys think of women who push or rub their boobs into guys arms or brush them against you? IOI or not?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They might feel safe/comfortable with you, so they are more open to kino.

OR

They might be trying to game you.

OR

They are just confident around men, and its no biggie for them.

So you cannot write a program about it -

if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}

But in all above cases, it IS a bit of an IOI or rather it is a "good sign" for you.
 

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daygameguy said:
They might feel safe/comfortable around you, so they are more open to kino. Or maybe they just have big boobs.:D
So it's not a sign that they want me to FUK them?
 

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daygameguy said:
if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}
Written like a true man. LOL
 

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basically you cannot generalize, it COULD be an IOI, but i don't think you can generalize like that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Canadian Catnip said:
Written like a true man.
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
 

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daygameguy said:
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
Sorry, I meant to put LOL at the end of my statement. I did think it was funny.

I just went back and edited it.
 

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Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
 

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no problem man, and yeah, it totally depends on the specific interaction.. she could be feeling sexually attracted to you.. but you cannot generalize this for all situations.
 

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Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
Never thought of that.

I ask because it happened twice with two different women in two separate locations on the same day.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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