"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question on IOI's... Again

Canadian Catnip

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This happens from time to time with me. Happened with two separate women on Wednesday.

Met a women. They seem nice, friendly etc. We are in a public place with other people around. An office or restaurant, etc.

They decide that they need to tell you something or show you something. They get in a position where they have to be beside you.

Then you get her boob touching your arm or your shoulder. You don't move, she doesn't move. Both of you pretend that you are really not touching each other. After a few seconds she moves away and we both pretend it never happened.

What do you guys think of women who push or rub their boobs into guys arms or brush them against you? IOI or not?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They might feel safe/comfortable with you, so they are more open to kino.

OR

They might be trying to game you.

OR

They are just confident around men, and its no biggie for them.

So you cannot write a program about it -

if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}

But in all above cases, it IS a bit of an IOI or rather it is a "good sign" for you.
 

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daygameguy said:
They might feel safe/comfortable around you, so they are more open to kino. Or maybe they just have big boobs.:D
So it's not a sign that they want me to FUK them?
 

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daygameguy said:
if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}
Written like a true man. LOL
 

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basically you cannot generalize, it COULD be an IOI, but i don't think you can generalize like that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Canadian Catnip said:
Written like a true man.
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
 

Canadian Catnip

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daygameguy said:
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
Sorry, I meant to put LOL at the end of my statement. I did think it was funny.

I just went back and edited it.
 

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Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
 

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no problem man, and yeah, it totally depends on the specific interaction.. she could be feeling sexually attracted to you.. but you cannot generalize this for all situations.
 

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DarkShade said:
Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
Never thought of that.

I ask because it happened twice with two different women in two separate locations on the same day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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