"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question on IOI's... Again

Canadian Catnip

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This happens from time to time with me. Happened with two separate women on Wednesday.

Met a women. They seem nice, friendly etc. We are in a public place with other people around. An office or restaurant, etc.

They decide that they need to tell you something or show you something. They get in a position where they have to be beside you.

Then you get her boob touching your arm or your shoulder. You don't move, she doesn't move. Both of you pretend that you are really not touching each other. After a few seconds she moves away and we both pretend it never happened.

What do you guys think of women who push or rub their boobs into guys arms or brush them against you? IOI or not?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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They might feel safe/comfortable with you, so they are more open to kino.

OR

They might be trying to game you.

OR

They are just confident around men, and its no biggie for them.

So you cannot write a program about it -

if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}

But in all above cases, it IS a bit of an IOI or rather it is a "good sign" for you.
 

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daygameguy said:
They might feel safe/comfortable around you, so they are more open to kino. Or maybe they just have big boobs.:D
So it's not a sign that they want me to FUK them?
 

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daygameguy said:
if (she_rubs_boobs_on_me == true)
{
I_am_getting_lucky_tonight();
}
Written like a true man. LOL
 

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basically you cannot generalize, it COULD be an IOI, but i don't think you can generalize like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Canadian Catnip said:
Written like a true man.
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
 

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daygameguy said:
haha i was just being funny.. grow some sense of humor dude.
Sorry, I meant to put LOL at the end of my statement. I did think it was funny.

I just went back and edited it.
 

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Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
 

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no problem man, and yeah, it totally depends on the specific interaction.. she could be feeling sexually attracted to you.. but you cannot generalize this for all situations.
 

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Depends how padded her bra was, she may not even know she's touching you with how much padding they have in those damn things now.
Never thought of that.

I ask because it happened twice with two different women in two separate locations on the same day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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