"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question on girl's interest level

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Originally posted by Eroe
that's what i thought too for a second. but she totally flaked on me this past friday. she had told me to call her after i was done running my errands. i called her and she didnt pick up. so i left her a text msg telling her to call me when she's done with whatever she's doing. she replied with "ok." never heard from her that night.

she then sent me mail, this is copy+pasted:

" Ok I know your really mad at me... I'm sorry... I'm sooo sorry... I dont want to give you some bull**** excuse why I flaked so bascially I just am... a flake... Call me if ya want I'm so ****ing sorry... again and again and again "

and i replied with:

"nah, you can call me. "

personally, i don't wanna deal with her. she tells me to call her. i ask, "will you pick up?" and she always says "yes." yet, she never picks up the phone. i don't bother leaving voice messages. but yeah, i've got other investments that would pay off better anyway :) whatever, her loss.
She flaked because you didn't F*CK HER F*CKING BRAINS OUT that first night. :p She does not want to waste any further time with you because you have shown an unwillingness to give her the d**k she is craving.

Originally posted by Krassus
Are you serious? Can you really not tell that this girl wants the two of you to be fvckbuddies? Read what you wrote, it's all in there! The signs stand out as i read it. Here, i've identified them for you. And that's from a few PARAGRAPHS OF TEXT... you've SPENT HOURS with this girl! Why haven't you fvcked her yet?
FINALLY someone who's not talking out their ass!! I saw the SAME THING.

I don't think that this can be stressed enough, especially to the couple of newbies I've seen posting this morning who don't seem to have a clue:

WOMEN LIKE SEX!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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