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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Originally posted by Eroe
that's what i thought too for a second. but she totally flaked on me this past friday. she had told me to call her after i was done running my errands. i called her and she didnt pick up. so i left her a text msg telling her to call me when she's done with whatever she's doing. she replied with "ok." never heard from her that night.

she then sent me mail, this is copy+pasted:

" Ok I know your really mad at me... I'm sorry... I'm sooo sorry... I dont want to give you some bull**** excuse why I flaked so bascially I just am... a flake... Call me if ya want I'm so ****ing sorry... again and again and again "

and i replied with:

"nah, you can call me. "

personally, i don't wanna deal with her. she tells me to call her. i ask, "will you pick up?" and she always says "yes." yet, she never picks up the phone. i don't bother leaving voice messages. but yeah, i've got other investments that would pay off better anyway :) whatever, her loss.
She flaked because you didn't F*CK HER F*CKING BRAINS OUT that first night. :p She does not want to waste any further time with you because you have shown an unwillingness to give her the d**k she is craving.

Originally posted by Krassus
Are you serious? Can you really not tell that this girl wants the two of you to be fvckbuddies? Read what you wrote, it's all in there! The signs stand out as i read it. Here, i've identified them for you. And that's from a few PARAGRAPHS OF TEXT... you've SPENT HOURS with this girl! Why haven't you fvcked her yet?
FINALLY someone who's not talking out their ass!! I saw the SAME THING.

I don't think that this can be stressed enough, especially to the couple of newbies I've seen posting this morning who don't seem to have a clue:

WOMEN LIKE SEX!!
 

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