"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is very AFC-ish, but whatever. So recently I moved to a bigger city and I'm in super amazement mode - the skyscrapers, historical sites, multitudes of people, etc are all extremely new to me. Most of all, the women are friggin gorgeous and they wear the skimpiest outfits. Now I come from a smaller midwestern town (pop of 20000), and maybe I'm just lacking a little bit in big city social etiquette so I'm kinda clueless on some things here. But heres the question: You see a hot girl on the side walk (or street) - make EC or not??? I'm not bad with women (I got laid like my first week here), but this EC issue has been driving me nuts. Like I'll see a hottie, I'll go for EC, but she DOESN'T give me any EC back - she just goes on walking like I wasn't there. For some reason this has been weird self esteem issue for me. Does that mean she's not into me? Or is it that I look too obvious? Do HB10's even make EC with other dudes on the street noticeably (probably not - but I'm not even getting EC back from 8's or 7's)? WTF, I'm not ugly, but I'm am at a loss for thoughts here...

Help/advice???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im guessin u not in nyc??? U see I lived in nyc my whole life n as u know we get alot of girls from everywhere everyday. If a girl doesnt ec u bac, its nothing. Still approach them. I rather Eye contact 1st n if she gives it bac den i'll talk. U have to realize the big cities like nyc n others. THey get approached alot n r busy. To b truthful alot of new york girls on purpose dont do ec n put their head down cuz they kno that if they look ur way then we will talk. sometimes they dont want to b talked to. Jus smile when u see them n talk
 
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I'm close to NYC - I'm in Philadelphia. Yea the girls at the bars are cool, I don't really have any issues with them. Its just the ones in the street - I guess its since I haven't really done any street approaches in such an environment before. It kinda feels like I'm on another planet (as stupid as that may sound). I figure the girls are just busy or that they purposely don't do EC noticeably.
 
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I thought philly is home to the ugliest people in the country
 
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Bilogomja

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Lol, then they were wrong... they must have left my midwestern town off that list. Compared to where I came from, philly is a godsend. Maybe it's because I don't notice the UGs. Whatever, I notice a ****load of hot women here...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nah philly got sum good lookin girls. Not as much like Nyc of course but still pretty decent. Yea outside on da streets good looking girls tend to not do EC on purpose. Like they stuck up or something. Dont pay no mind to that n smile n talk to them. U gonna get alot of nothing bac tho i'll tell u that. But it will pay off in the long run. I fu got a car n aint busy this weekend den come up to nyc n we can get at sum girls around here
 
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