"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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question on EC in the street

Bilogomja

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This is very AFC-ish, but whatever. So recently I moved to a bigger city and I'm in super amazement mode - the skyscrapers, historical sites, multitudes of people, etc are all extremely new to me. Most of all, the women are friggin gorgeous and they wear the skimpiest outfits. Now I come from a smaller midwestern town (pop of 20000), and maybe I'm just lacking a little bit in big city social etiquette so I'm kinda clueless on some things here. But heres the question: You see a hot girl on the side walk (or street) - make EC or not??? I'm not bad with women (I got laid like my first week here), but this EC issue has been driving me nuts. Like I'll see a hottie, I'll go for EC, but she DOESN'T give me any EC back - she just goes on walking like I wasn't there. For some reason this has been weird self esteem issue for me. Does that mean she's not into me? Or is it that I look too obvious? Do HB10's even make EC with other dudes on the street noticeably (probably not - but I'm not even getting EC back from 8's or 7's)? WTF, I'm not ugly, but I'm am at a loss for thoughts here...

Help/advice???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YoungSir4sho

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Im guessin u not in nyc??? U see I lived in nyc my whole life n as u know we get alot of girls from everywhere everyday. If a girl doesnt ec u bac, its nothing. Still approach them. I rather Eye contact 1st n if she gives it bac den i'll talk. U have to realize the big cities like nyc n others. THey get approached alot n r busy. To b truthful alot of new york girls on purpose dont do ec n put their head down cuz they kno that if they look ur way then we will talk. sometimes they dont want to b talked to. Jus smile when u see them n talk
 

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I'm close to NYC - I'm in Philadelphia. Yea the girls at the bars are cool, I don't really have any issues with them. Its just the ones in the street - I guess its since I haven't really done any street approaches in such an environment before. It kinda feels like I'm on another planet (as stupid as that may sound). I figure the girls are just busy or that they purposely don't do EC noticeably.
 

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I thought philly is home to the ugliest people in the country
 

Bilogomja

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Lol, then they were wrong... they must have left my midwestern town off that list. Compared to where I came from, philly is a godsend. Maybe it's because I don't notice the UGs. Whatever, I notice a ****load of hot women here...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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YoungSir4sho

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nah philly got sum good lookin girls. Not as much like Nyc of course but still pretty decent. Yea outside on da streets good looking girls tend to not do EC on purpose. Like they stuck up or something. Dont pay no mind to that n smile n talk to them. U gonna get alot of nothing bac tho i'll tell u that. But it will pay off in the long run. I fu got a car n aint busy this weekend den come up to nyc n we can get at sum girls around here
 
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