"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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question on EC in the street

Bilogomja

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This is very AFC-ish, but whatever. So recently I moved to a bigger city and I'm in super amazement mode - the skyscrapers, historical sites, multitudes of people, etc are all extremely new to me. Most of all, the women are friggin gorgeous and they wear the skimpiest outfits. Now I come from a smaller midwestern town (pop of 20000), and maybe I'm just lacking a little bit in big city social etiquette so I'm kinda clueless on some things here. But heres the question: You see a hot girl on the side walk (or street) - make EC or not??? I'm not bad with women (I got laid like my first week here), but this EC issue has been driving me nuts. Like I'll see a hottie, I'll go for EC, but she DOESN'T give me any EC back - she just goes on walking like I wasn't there. For some reason this has been weird self esteem issue for me. Does that mean she's not into me? Or is it that I look too obvious? Do HB10's even make EC with other dudes on the street noticeably (probably not - but I'm not even getting EC back from 8's or 7's)? WTF, I'm not ugly, but I'm am at a loss for thoughts here...

Help/advice???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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YoungSir4sho

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Im guessin u not in nyc??? U see I lived in nyc my whole life n as u know we get alot of girls from everywhere everyday. If a girl doesnt ec u bac, its nothing. Still approach them. I rather Eye contact 1st n if she gives it bac den i'll talk. U have to realize the big cities like nyc n others. THey get approached alot n r busy. To b truthful alot of new york girls on purpose dont do ec n put their head down cuz they kno that if they look ur way then we will talk. sometimes they dont want to b talked to. Jus smile when u see them n talk
 

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I'm close to NYC - I'm in Philadelphia. Yea the girls at the bars are cool, I don't really have any issues with them. Its just the ones in the street - I guess its since I haven't really done any street approaches in such an environment before. It kinda feels like I'm on another planet (as stupid as that may sound). I figure the girls are just busy or that they purposely don't do EC noticeably.
 

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I thought philly is home to the ugliest people in the country
 

Bilogomja

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Lol, then they were wrong... they must have left my midwestern town off that list. Compared to where I came from, philly is a godsend. Maybe it's because I don't notice the UGs. Whatever, I notice a ****load of hot women here...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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YoungSir4sho

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nah philly got sum good lookin girls. Not as much like Nyc of course but still pretty decent. Yea outside on da streets good looking girls tend to not do EC on purpose. Like they stuck up or something. Dont pay no mind to that n smile n talk to them. U gonna get alot of nothing bac tho i'll tell u that. But it will pay off in the long run. I fu got a car n aint busy this weekend den come up to nyc n we can get at sum girls around here
 
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