"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question on being a chanllenge

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Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You need to take being a challenge clear into relationships. Slowly you ease out of it if its a LTR. Your not going to ask a girl to be yours and then instantly stop making her work for your attention.

Yes you need to make sure she knows shes yours but you still gotta make it fun for her. Sometimes when im kissing i will pull away and turn the TV on just to fvck with her mind and she loves it because she knows im joking but its still fun for her to try to get my attention back. Its that little challenge I give her everyonce in a while.

I could see in some LTRs where it would be ok to stop being a challenge eventually but for most relationships, expecially the high school ones, being a challenge is important, if not the key, to a succesful and healthy relationship.
 
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You ALWAYS need to continue to be a challenge, even when in a relationship. You are in high school, and probably won't be looking for a mature relationship that can actually be defined as a "LTR."
Remain a challenge and keep yourself as the prize once you keep a girl. Let her continue to want to strive for your attention. Let yourself be the busy one always and let her be the one that always calls you/asks you to chill! Sure, it's important to be proactive in a relationship, but you should always make it known that she is NOT your life - she is merely a part of it.
 
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