"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question on being a chanllenge

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Well, being a challenge has always been the gist of getting a girlfriend. However what if a girl who eventually becomes ur girlfriend only likes u for being a challenge? What will happen if you stop being a challenge after u 2 are together. Will she stop liking you??? What do u guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You need to take being a challenge clear into relationships. Slowly you ease out of it if its a LTR. Your not going to ask a girl to be yours and then instantly stop making her work for your attention.

Yes you need to make sure she knows shes yours but you still gotta make it fun for her. Sometimes when im kissing i will pull away and turn the TV on just to fvck with her mind and she loves it because she knows im joking but its still fun for her to try to get my attention back. Its that little challenge I give her everyonce in a while.

I could see in some LTRs where it would be ok to stop being a challenge eventually but for most relationships, expecially the high school ones, being a challenge is important, if not the key, to a succesful and healthy relationship.
 
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You ALWAYS need to continue to be a challenge, even when in a relationship. You are in high school, and probably won't be looking for a mature relationship that can actually be defined as a "LTR."
Remain a challenge and keep yourself as the prize once you keep a girl. Let her continue to want to strive for your attention. Let yourself be the busy one always and let her be the one that always calls you/asks you to chill! Sure, it's important to be proactive in a relationship, but you should always make it known that she is NOT your life - she is merely a part of it.
 
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