Question! How to do a clean break-up?

[I-am-someone]

My question is simple:

How on earth do you break up with a girl without the drama, the revenges, the insults, the stalking, everything involved in a break-up?

I could definitely use some advice here!

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Be man?
Sit her down, tell her you guys aren't right for eachother (I use a very philisophical/spiritual approach) Let her know you're there if she needs to talk (but don't be there too much), wish her the best, never show negative emotion or temper no matter what she says, and never talk about her again (especially anything bad).

Stay rational and collected. Accept that she'll be emotional but don't get mad and stay positive. Take the blame.

 

[Jay Jay]

Teflon gave great adivice about the actual break up.

I would just add that I have found that the drama only happens in breakups from relationships which was full of the same kind of drama.

The girls who I have always been in control, cool and collected with were easy to keep cool when we broke up.

If you are honest and set very clear boundries when you are together you don't leave her much ground to cause trouble when you break up.

So I guess you need to attend the relationship from the beginning.

JJ