"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question! How to do a clean break-up?

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I-am-someone

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My question is simple:

How on earth do you break up with a girl without the drama, the revenges, the insults, the stalking, everything involved in a break-up?

I could definitely use some advice here!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sit her down, tell her you guys aren't right for eachother (I use a very philisophical/spiritual approach) Let her know you're there if she needs to talk (but don't be there too much), wish her the best, never show negative emotion or temper no matter what she says, and never talk about her again (especially anything bad).

Stay rational and collected. Accept that she'll be emotional but don't get mad and stay positive. Take the blame.
 
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Teflon gave great adivice about the actual break up.

I would just add that I have found that the drama only happens in breakups from relationships which was full of the same kind of drama.

The girls who I have always been in control, cool and collected with were easy to keep cool when we broke up.

If you are honest and set very clear boundries when you are together you don't leave her much ground to cause trouble when you break up.

So I guess you need to attend the relationship from the beginning.

JJ
 
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