"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question for those who have many sexual partners

I have sex...

  • With one person one time and then loose contact

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Have sex with one person several times until I find a new one and then lose contact with the first

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • I alternate between all of my sexual partners intermittently

    Votes: 4 57.1%

  • I do something else which i described in a post

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Total voters
    7
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I have a question for those who have sex frequently with many sexual partners:

Do you have sex with one person one time and then never talk to them again, or do you have periods where you **** one person and then another and loose contact with the first, and then find another, etc. etc. etc.

Or do you just alternate between all of them and have sex with all of them without loosing contact with either one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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out of a sample size of 10, i think i pretty much cover all of the options in the poll LOL

3 would be one night stand and never see her again
3 would fvck a few times (anywhere from 3-10 times over 1-3 weeks), then never see again
3 would fvck here and there (option 3)
1 would become a gf who i fvck all the time
 
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What's the point

I just got out of a LTR and I was wondering what other people's situations were for having sex (seeing as how i need to find a new one now)

So I'm not sure what I'm planning on doing yet, thats why I'm wondering what other people do/have done and what works/worked for them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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