"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question for those who have many sexual partners

I have sex...


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Raptured Phoenix

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I have a question for those who have sex frequently with many sexual partners:

Do you have sex with one person one time and then never talk to them again, or do you have periods where you **** one person and then another and loose contact with the first, and then find another, etc. etc. etc.

Or do you just alternate between all of them and have sex with all of them without loosing contact with either one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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out of a sample size of 10, i think i pretty much cover all of the options in the poll LOL

3 would be one night stand and never see her again
3 would fvck a few times (anywhere from 3-10 times over 1-3 weeks), then never see again
3 would fvck here and there (option 3)
1 would become a gf who i fvck all the time
 

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What's the point

I just got out of a LTR and I was wondering what other people's situations were for having sex (seeing as how i need to find a new one now)

So I'm not sure what I'm planning on doing yet, thats why I'm wondering what other people do/have done and what works/worked for them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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