"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question for those who have many sexual partners

I have sex...


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Raptured Phoenix

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I have a question for those who have sex frequently with many sexual partners:

Do you have sex with one person one time and then never talk to them again, or do you have periods where you **** one person and then another and loose contact with the first, and then find another, etc. etc. etc.

Or do you just alternate between all of them and have sex with all of them without loosing contact with either one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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out of a sample size of 10, i think i pretty much cover all of the options in the poll LOL

3 would be one night stand and never see her again
3 would fvck a few times (anywhere from 3-10 times over 1-3 weeks), then never see again
3 would fvck here and there (option 3)
1 would become a gf who i fvck all the time
 

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What's the point

I just got out of a LTR and I was wondering what other people's situations were for having sex (seeing as how i need to find a new one now)

So I'm not sure what I'm planning on doing yet, thats why I'm wondering what other people do/have done and what works/worked for them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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