Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question for those who have many sexual partners

I have sex...


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Raptured Phoenix

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I have a question for those who have sex frequently with many sexual partners:

Do you have sex with one person one time and then never talk to them again, or do you have periods where you **** one person and then another and loose contact with the first, and then find another, etc. etc. etc.

Or do you just alternate between all of them and have sex with all of them without loosing contact with either one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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out of a sample size of 10, i think i pretty much cover all of the options in the poll LOL

3 would be one night stand and never see her again
3 would fvck a few times (anywhere from 3-10 times over 1-3 weeks), then never see again
3 would fvck here and there (option 3)
1 would become a gf who i fvck all the time
 

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What's the point

I just got out of a LTR and I was wondering what other people's situations were for having sex (seeing as how i need to find a new one now)

So I'm not sure what I'm planning on doing yet, thats why I'm wondering what other people do/have done and what works/worked for them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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