"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, so i smoked for the second time last night, thinking i would be ok by the next day like i was the time before that. I woke up today though still high, or just definitely not sober. Is this normal?

Oh and I'm never smoking again because I canceled a date with an HB9 because I didn't want to meet her like this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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asdfghjkl said:
Oh and I'm never smoking again because I canceled a date with an HB9 because I didn't want to meet her like this.
Don't worry, you're flaking will probably raise interest levels.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's normal. I can be a little woozy for up to 4 days, that's why I quit.
 

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he considered the HB to be a 9 after he puffed the joint. After becoming sober hes like "wtf thats not even a HB its a monkey."



druggs kill kiddo.

dont do em.


tanx god.
 

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Charm&Style said:
he considered the HB to be a 9 after he puffed the joint. After becoming sober hes like "wtf thats not even a HB its a monkey."



druggs kill kiddo.

dont do em.


tanx god.

Haha no, she's a genuine 9, but she thinks she's a princess and is kinda a *****, she wasn't answering my calls (to tell her i couldn't go), then she finally calls me and I tell her. She definitely wasn't expecting that I think haha
 

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Tell her you'll make it up to her with a batch of magic brownies
 

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ya and instead of w/e your planning to put in the brownies put some X instead.


itll get her :rock:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As it is with any drug, the body builds tolerance quickly. If you hardly ever smoke, then yes it will get you really fvcked up. But daily smokers don't get wasted when they smoke.
 
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Whoever said drugs kill is a tard... duh o well there has been no reported case of death induced by weed, so it's not really bad for you. It's true that legal drugs like Alcohol and cigs kill ppl ever year, so why is weed illegal? Because the U.S. government won't make porfit. Pretty stupid as I see it they could spend their time, resources and money on catching more drunk drivers or meth addics who are more prone to injure someone else.

I tried smoking, I hate how it stays around in your system for a month and you sometimes get paranoid if your in public. At least when your drunk you can sarge but sarging high is really hard. The cons of smoking that I obeserved through my stoner friends are they get really lazy or stop caring, they develop physicological addiction if they're weak minded, once they reach their tolerance they decide to switch to other drugs like shrooms, coke and acid. Also ppl who are high lack time judgement almost got into a huge accident when friend decided to cut off two trucks. These are not all true but I seen it myself, which is why I stopped. But if you like to do it go ahead it's pretty much harmless.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
cons of smoking that I obeserved through my stoner friends are they get really lazy or stop caring, they develop physicological addiction if they're weak minded, once they reach their tolerance they decide to switch to other drugs like shrooms, coke and acid.

I agree 100% on that. Same thing that happened with my friends. Got bored of them and moved on. I've smoked a few times but nothing to majorly exciting ever happened. Smoking once in awhile won't do anything, but anything in excess can be too much.
 

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I smoke tons of weed. Im a lazy **** but I always tell myself do what i gotta do or pay later. I have never tried another drug in my life for the record other than alcohol...so im not with the whole "gateway drug". Ive been smoking weed for 12 years or so now. I still go out 3 nights a week, attend college, work a full time job, have a LTR
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Whoever said drugs kill is a tard... duh o well there has been no reported case of death induced by weed, so it's not really bad for you. It's true that legal drugs like Alcohol and cigs kill ppl ever year, so why is weed illegal? Because the U.S. government won't make porfit. Pretty stupid as I see it they could spend their time, resources and money on catching more drunk drivers or meth addics who are more prone to injure someone else.

I tried smoking, I hate how it stays around in your system for a month and you sometimes get paranoid if your in public. At least when your drunk you can sarge but sarging high is really hard. The cons of smoking that I obeserved through my stoner friends are they get really lazy or stop caring, they develop physicological addiction if they're weak minded, once they reach their tolerance they decide to switch to other drugs like shrooms, coke and acid. Also ppl who are high lack time judgement almost got into a huge accident when friend decided to cut off two trucks. These are not all true but I seen it myself, which is why I stopped. But if you like to do it go ahead it's pretty much harmless.


...its not really bad for you?? :crackup:

o come on...do some research on smoking weed. Maybe its not bad for you, cuz your o so cool with having your brain cells killed or suffering from paranoia and schizophrenia that you considered it "not really bad".

:woo:
 
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...its not really bad for you?? :crackup:

o come on...do some research on smoking weed. Maybe its not bad for you, cuz your o so cool with having your brain cells killed or suffering from paranoia and schizophrenia that you considered it "not really bad".

:woo:
How about YOU DO SOME RESEARCH? A lot of things kills your brain cells including ALCOHOL and SMOKING CIGS, you can DIE FROM ALCOHOL POISIONING and smoking cigs was proven to increase your chances of getting lung, throat or mouth cancer. There has been no STUDY done to prove that weed is dangerous, besides the one done by the government in 1950s when they locked monkeys in a closed room and filled it with marijuana smoke that suffocated all of them. Yes you can suffer from paranoia, but it's mainly caused by thoughts of getting caught by the cops, if weed was legal then there won't be paranoia. There has been no link to schizophrenia either and if it was BAD then why do some hospitals perscribe it for pain killers? Why do the country like the Netherlands or Canada have weed legal? So ya maybe you should do some research instead of making yourself look like an idiot. BTW I don't support it anyways, tried it and it wasn't worth the money or hassle.
 

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smoking weed is just like smoking a super cigarette with some at moment side effects, beyond that effects are phycological.
 
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It has been proven many times over that marijuana affects your judgment, perception of time (as stated by yourself earlier), and inhibitions. All three are dangerous.

How are those dangerous? That's the reason why ppl smoke pot so they can be in an altered state. Unless the individual is operating a vehicle there is no harm sitting around like most users do. Alcohol on the other hand can cause DEATH in large amounts and is much more lethal since you can overdose easily BAC .35 cause death in most people. To overdose on weed you have to smoke nearly your body weight or have THC in liquid form, which are both close to impossible.


If that were true, then underage drinkers and recreational cocaine and heroin users would also suffer from accute paranoia. THC is the cause of the paranoia.

False THC is not cause of paranoia just like the user's mood effects the outcome of an acid trip. Underage drinkers, cocaine and heroin users can also suffer from paranoia if they're faced with the same circumstance.


Research between the use of cannabis and mental illness has also brought significant results. Cannabis use is generally higher among sufferers of schizophrenia, but the causality between the two has not been established. Another study concluded that sustained early-adolescent cannabis use among genetically predisposed individuals has been associated with a variety of mental illness outcomes; ranging from psychotic episodes to clinical schizophrenia. - British Medical Journal 2004, 2005 and Society of Biological Psychiatry, 2005

Actually you read it wrong, people with schizophrenia SMOKE POT because it takes the pain away. How are you sure that the British Medical Journal isn't biased? Most government are against it.

Lesser of two evils. Like using a sample of a virus for a vaccination.

So it's medical value out weighs the cons right?


Same reason the legal age of consent for sex in Yemen is 9 years old. Just because another country has a law doesn't mean we automatically should too. Although I do think it should be legalized.
Yemen isn't a first world country... Both Netherlands and Canada are 1st world countries, Canada has better healthcare and lower crime rate, so U.S. can actually learn from other countries and stop being so ignorant. Just like the drinking age is 21, which makes more teenagers wanna drink. In the end , the US should stop wasting money on Weed enforcement and spend money on dealing with hardcore drugs like Meth, Coke and X.

... That's that I really don't feel like debating anymore, I quit so find someone else to argue over.
 

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If there were any real problems caused by chronic pot smoking, then there would be an epidemic in Belize and Jamaica where there are thousands of Rastas who have smoked all day every day for decades. They are pretty lazy, but they aren't dying of cancer or reefer madness.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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