“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I already told her that if he's going to share time with the kids I have to meet him. Or better told, he's going to meet me. I'm a recovering AFC and so my thread reeks of betaness, but as a recovering chump now I know that I wouldn't invest in a LTR with a woman like my ex.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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He's probably an alright guy. And just as much of a chump as you were. As we all were.
 
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Yeah, there's nothing really that unusual about it. He's likely an AFC who either doesn't know or makes excuses for your ex's cheating and is "interested" in the kids bc he's sucking up to your ex (and not a dangerous pedophile). Don't let it drive you crazy.

I went through the exact same thing when I split w/ my ex - who I was still seeing daily bc of the kids - including wondering why her new admirer was so interested in the kids and telling her I thought he might be a pedophile. Shockingly, leading with accusing her of taking up with a pedophile made her less interested in listening when I came back with calmer requests (limit his interactions w/ the kids bc it can be confusing to them; see him when the kids are w/ me, etc.).
 
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Thank you

Eco-J said:
Yeah, there's nothing really that unusual about it. He's likely an AFC who either doesn't know or makes excuses for your ex's cheating and is "interested" in the kids bc he's sucking up to your ex (and not a dangerous pedophile). Don't let it drive you crazy.

I went through the exact same thing when I split w/ my ex - who I was still seeing daily bc of the kids - including wondering why her new admirer was so interested in the kids and telling her I thought he might be a pedophile. Shockingly, leading with accusing her of taking up with a pedophile made her less interested in listening when I came back with calmer requests (limit his interactions w/ the kids bc it can be confusing to them; see him when the kids are w/ me, etc.).
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That's a very good advice. Yeah, I see this guy as a total AFC, and my ex being post wall or very close to it knows that she has to stick with this "nice guy", that buys her things and invites her to trips, etc.
 
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