Question about "You and I would never work out" classic line

[bufffrog]

Girls often follow up with why not, what's wrong with me, why is that?

How do you guys respond to keep the ball rolling without expressing explocit interest?

I often find that once they ask why not, they are showing their own interest. I Usually bullshi* my way out of it, or keep them guessing.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't use it, couldn't tell you

 

[soulforge]

Just be honest with her & tell her that she is a wh0re and you cannot commit to wh0res.

Problem solved.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

"I've got a private gym and I'm tired of getting my bones jumped."

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Girls often follow up with why not, what's wrong with me, why is that?

How do you guys respond to keep the ball rolling without expressing explocit interest?

I often find that once they ask why not, they are showing their own interest. I Usually bullshi* my way out of it, or keep them guessing.

When a woman questions my decision I respond with jest and play. If she presses for an answer and tries to be serious, then I tell her that I should never have to explain why.

To demand an explanation (or show any serious push back on a decision) is an assertion that the decision alone is not respected. I don't sell my relationship decisions to women, it's simply something I never feel I have to do. Either women respect my decisions or I lose interest.

 

[MatureDJ]

I respond with, "OK, see you around".

Only a man without options tries to beg his way back in.

 

[Masculinity]

Girls often follow up with why not, what's wrong with me, why is that?

How do you guys respond to keep the ball rolling without expressing explocit interest?

I often find that once they ask why not, they are showing their own interest. I Usually bullshi* my way out of it, or keep them guessing.

The original intention of the line is to demonstrate that you are the selector and not the selectee. Be prepared to answer it truthfully. I am sure there will be some things that will annoy you in each girl. I usually cite one or two following my comment, displaying a playful smirk. If often gets them to laugh, punch you on the shoulder and either try to fix the issue or explain their behavior.

When used organically and truthfully, this approach is very powerful with women. Use it authentically.

 

[SW15]

I don't use that line.

 

[RangerMIke]

Accept reality and just move on. When chicks say "It's not you... it's me." Believe it, chemistry is what it is... if she is not attracted to you then that is that. There is nothing you can do to change that.

Don't ask 'why', because the answer doesn't matter and it is not something a man can fix. You can drive up interest, but you can't do a fvcking thing about attraction.... it's there or it isn't. You can be the best man in world, good looks, money, status.... but if you don't trigger anything in that pretty little lizard brain that tells her to rip you clothes off, you have nothing to build on.

Sometimes being the best man you can be isn't enough for a particular chick who has her own screening criteria.... it really isn't you... it's her and to be honest, that's okay.

This isn't the 1950s... if a chick isn't trying... there isn't any chemistry. You can hang around and hope sh1t changes... and she MIGHT settle for you, but that seldom works out.