"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about the tips forum

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Ricardo

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Why aren't the tips kept for a longer period?

I find them infinitely more helpful than looking at the same old rehased questions in the forum.

Can't we keep more than two pages of tips at a time? Or is it time related (i.e. a certain number of days are kept?)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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huh? Tips are kept mostly forever... I'm not sure what you are talking about.
 
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Holy Cow, now that I see show all topics, I see that I have a serious backlog of reading to look at.

I will stick to the tips. I am getting jaded about the quality of the forums now as well. I guess it's a natural progression. Everyone grows tired of the newbies!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just a quick question, Do you guys (Mods included) Think that this is a regression towards the means, and will naturally correct itself, or is there decisive action which needs to be taken on our parts?

...to improve the health of the content on the forum, I mean.

[This message has been edited by CyranoDeBergerac (edited 11-20-2002).]
 
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