"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question about the tips forum

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Ricardo

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Why aren't the tips kept for a longer period?

I find them infinitely more helpful than looking at the same old rehased questions in the forum.

Can't we keep more than two pages of tips at a time? Or is it time related (i.e. a certain number of days are kept?)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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huh? Tips are kept mostly forever... I'm not sure what you are talking about.
 
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Holy Cow, now that I see show all topics, I see that I have a serious backlog of reading to look at.

I will stick to the tips. I am getting jaded about the quality of the forums now as well. I guess it's a natural progression. Everyone grows tired of the newbies!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just a quick question, Do you guys (Mods included) Think that this is a regression towards the means, and will naturally correct itself, or is there decisive action which needs to be taken on our parts?

...to improve the health of the content on the forum, I mean.

[This message has been edited by CyranoDeBergerac (edited 11-20-2002).]
 
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