"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about the tips forum

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Ricardo

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Why aren't the tips kept for a longer period?

I find them infinitely more helpful than looking at the same old rehased questions in the forum.

Can't we keep more than two pages of tips at a time? Or is it time related (i.e. a certain number of days are kept?)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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huh? Tips are kept mostly forever... I'm not sure what you are talking about.
 
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Holy Cow, now that I see show all topics, I see that I have a serious backlog of reading to look at.

I will stick to the tips. I am getting jaded about the quality of the forums now as well. I guess it's a natural progression. Everyone grows tired of the newbies!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just a quick question, Do you guys (Mods included) Think that this is a regression towards the means, and will naturally correct itself, or is there decisive action which needs to be taken on our parts?

...to improve the health of the content on the forum, I mean.

[This message has been edited by CyranoDeBergerac (edited 11-20-2002).]
 
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