Question about text compliment

[zinc64]

I went on one date with this Thai girl two weeks ago and have occasionally talk to her on the phone since then and am thinkign about asking her out this weekend. She has told me she is only interested in a long term relationship and wants to get to know the person before any physical intimacy as she has been burned in the past.

So we were talk,ing the other night and she told me how a UPS driver was late with her package and called her retarded because he couldn't understand her accent on the phone and she would have to pick up the package the next day at UPS center.

I texted her today saying, hey, I say a UPS truck today and thought about you. Did you ever get that package?

She immediately responded with, lol, when I see ups truck, i will look at driver who might be that guy. i still upset with that. i got my package yesterday.

So I waited about 20 minutes and responded with, lol, you are too cute to scare anyone. No response and it's been over 40 mins. Do I have anyhting to worry about?

 

[Kailex]

I went on one date with this Thai girl two weeks ago and have occasionally talk to her on the phone since then and am thinkign about asking her out this weekend. She has told me she is only interested in a long term relationship and wants to get to know the person before any physical intimacy as she has been burned in the past.

So we were talk,ing the other night and she told me how a UPS driver was late with her package and called her retarded because he couldn't understand her accent on the phone and she would have to pick up the package the next day at UPS center.

I texted her today saying, hey, I say a UPS truck today and thought about you. Did you ever get that package?

She immediately responded with, lol, when I see ups truck, i will look at driver who might be that guy. i still upset with that. i got my package yesterday.

So I waited about 20 minutes and responded with, lol, you are too cute to scare anyone. No response and it's been over 40 mins. Do I have anyhting to worry about?

In before Iceberg. (I think)

Okay, right now, I just want to scream.
We really need to set up a thread about Men & Texting and WHEN they should do it and WHEN it's just filler... because ALL the time, questions about texts...

Look... just be glad she responded the first time.

Second, stop complimenting her over text message.
What else did you want her to add to that comment of yours:

"Oooooh, thank you, let's have sex tonight kkkk?"

Just call her and set up a date and stop texting. Whatever you need to say to her, say face to face or in that quick phone call while you are setting up a date.

I just worry about men and why they feel the need to text... because if they don't get texted back, they feel like the world is going to end. And stop looking at your watch to see how long has passed since the last message.

You're a MAN. Aren't you supposed to be busy doing manly stuff and worrying about the one girl.


And before someone else says it for you and decides to waste a post on saying it:

Spin more plates.
Hit the gym. :yes:

And stop worrying about silly things. Women worry.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

That text doesn't warrant a response really. She could have liked it, or not. Your only choice is to forget about it.

And did you really give a f*ck about her package?

 

[zinc64]

Well, ordinarily, it wouldn't be that much of a big deal, but I'm trying to get over a divorce and am feeling kind of ****ed up from it. Like I need something to get over it or something. Was spinning some plates but two of them weren't attractive enough and the other flaked out. Met a new chic at the mall the other day, but not sure what will come of it. For some reason, I am keen on the Thai chick as she seems to have a lot of morals.

 

[zinc64]

i kind of wondered about the package just to see if she ever met the driver face to face or not to see how she reacted

 

[zinc64]

it seems like there i nothing wrong with short text messages...phone convo can be a lot of work and she likes to talk a lot about herself...maybe i am just lazy

 

[Donnie Darko]

Well, try sending her lots of text messages and showing her that you are lazy and come back and tell us how that worked out for you to build attraction with her. I mean this could be ground breaking and turn everything upside down with how people on this forum think attraction works.