dustmuffin
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If a girl asks you to do a chore, I know enough not to do it. But what if I ask that she be involved? Is that OK? What would be the best way to go about it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Question about Servant friend ye be...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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There's nothing wrong with doing a favor for a friend, or even a lover. Like maybe if it's something you can help with that she can't do herself. It depends totally on the context of the situation. You can be a helpful person without becoming a doormat. It's like if you hold the door for a stranger, have you suddenly become a beta? What should you do, slam it in their face?
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
He's baaaack.....