dustmuffin
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If a girl asks you to do a chore, I know enough not to do it. But what if I ask that she be involved? Is that OK? What would be the best way to go about it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Question about Servant friend ye be...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
zekko
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There's nothing wrong with doing a favor for a friend, or even a lover. Like maybe if it's something you can help with that she can't do herself. It depends totally on the context of the situation. You can be a helpful person without becoming a doormat. It's like if you hold the door for a stranger, have you suddenly become a beta? What should you do, slam it in their face?
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
He's baaaack.....