dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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If a girl asks you to do a chore, I know enough not to do it. But what if I ask that she be involved? Is that OK? What would be the best way to go about it?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Question about Servant friend ye be...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
zekko
Master Don Juan
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There's nothing wrong with doing a favor for a friend, or even a lover. Like maybe if it's something you can help with that she can't do herself. It depends totally on the context of the situation. You can be a helpful person without becoming a doormat. It's like if you hold the door for a stranger, have you suddenly become a beta? What should you do, slam it in their face?
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
SMH. This place seems determined to churn out a bunch of selfish pr!cks lately. I don't get it. Where's Atom Smasher, he used to bring a sense of balance to this place.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
He's baaaack.....