"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about pregnancy

Brighty

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Yeah, one of these threads.

Basically the girl I was with has been on birth control for a month now and we ended up ****ing without a condom on. I didn't know that she had only been on it a month, or else I wouldn't of came inside her.

Earlier today, she was saying that she missed her period the day before, but this was before we ****ed.

So she hasn't had her period yet, but she said she'd probably get it tomorrow. Two questions: How long does birth control take for it to take affect and should I be rushing out to buy the morning after pill now?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Recon

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While I don't know much about the effects of Birth control and such, what I do know is that its better to be safe then sorry.

Go buy that pill.
 

Allurre

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I've had the pregnancy scare with my girl before.

1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.

2. IF you're truly paranoid, visit the doc.
 

muscleman

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Yea go see a doc if she doesn't start. And hopefully you can take 2 things away from this:

1) Never ever fvck a girl without a condom. Doesn't matter if she tells you she's on birth control or not. You have no way of proving it.
2) Never ever come inside a girl unless you want a baby. That's like putting your hand in the oven and expecting not to get burned. Seriously?
 

horaholic

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Allurre said:
1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.
This. Especially when they first get on it. I believe two to three weeks after they are on the pill, you're ok, but google it to be sure.

She might start getting gnarly mood swings, so beware. The pill tends to amplify womens craziness. My roomate had to take prozac while she was on the pill cuz it made her especially hormonal and wacko.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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