"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about pregnancy

Brighty

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Yeah, one of these threads.

Basically the girl I was with has been on birth control for a month now and we ended up ****ing without a condom on. I didn't know that she had only been on it a month, or else I wouldn't of came inside her.

Earlier today, she was saying that she missed her period the day before, but this was before we ****ed.

So she hasn't had her period yet, but she said she'd probably get it tomorrow. Two questions: How long does birth control take for it to take affect and should I be rushing out to buy the morning after pill now?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Recon

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While I don't know much about the effects of Birth control and such, what I do know is that its better to be safe then sorry.

Go buy that pill.
 

Allurre

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I've had the pregnancy scare with my girl before.

1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.

2. IF you're truly paranoid, visit the doc.
 

muscleman

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Yea go see a doc if she doesn't start. And hopefully you can take 2 things away from this:

1) Never ever fvck a girl without a condom. Doesn't matter if she tells you she's on birth control or not. You have no way of proving it.
2) Never ever come inside a girl unless you want a baby. That's like putting your hand in the oven and expecting not to get burned. Seriously?
 

horaholic

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Allurre said:
1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.
This. Especially when they first get on it. I believe two to three weeks after they are on the pill, you're ok, but google it to be sure.

She might start getting gnarly mood swings, so beware. The pill tends to amplify womens craziness. My roomate had to take prozac while she was on the pill cuz it made her especially hormonal and wacko.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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