"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about pregnancy

Brighty

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Yeah, one of these threads.

Basically the girl I was with has been on birth control for a month now and we ended up ****ing without a condom on. I didn't know that she had only been on it a month, or else I wouldn't of came inside her.

Earlier today, she was saying that she missed her period the day before, but this was before we ****ed.

So she hasn't had her period yet, but she said she'd probably get it tomorrow. Two questions: How long does birth control take for it to take affect and should I be rushing out to buy the morning after pill now?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Recon

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While I don't know much about the effects of Birth control and such, what I do know is that its better to be safe then sorry.

Go buy that pill.
 

Allurre

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I've had the pregnancy scare with my girl before.

1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.

2. IF you're truly paranoid, visit the doc.
 

muscleman

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Yea go see a doc if she doesn't start. And hopefully you can take 2 things away from this:

1) Never ever fvck a girl without a condom. Doesn't matter if she tells you she's on birth control or not. You have no way of proving it.
2) Never ever come inside a girl unless you want a baby. That's like putting your hand in the oven and expecting not to get burned. Seriously?
 

horaholic

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Allurre said:
1. The birth control DISRUPTS the cycle of period for women. This means it could delay her usual period time frame.
This. Especially when they first get on it. I believe two to three weeks after they are on the pill, you're ok, but google it to be sure.

She might start getting gnarly mood swings, so beware. The pill tends to amplify womens craziness. My roomate had to take prozac while she was on the pill cuz it made her especially hormonal and wacko.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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