"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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question about pook and flirting

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FBA808

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personally, i feel pook as all you need

but there is one contradiction of his i cant figure out, i think its mostly that he used to feel one way but now feels another, but how does pook REALLY feel about:

flirting?

in some posts he says guys SHOULDN'T flirt, just show interest (not tell) but asking for number or date

other posts he says guys SHOULD flirt, just subtly

what is it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
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It all depends on how you flirt. If you're cheesy or too cliche, you'll look as sleazy as any other guy.
 
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