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question about pook and flirting

FBA808

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personally, i feel pook as all you need

but there is one contradiction of his i cant figure out, i think its mostly that he used to feel one way but now feels another, but how does pook REALLY feel about:

flirting?

in some posts he says guys SHOULDN'T flirt, just show interest (not tell) but asking for number or date

other posts he says guys SHOULD flirt, just subtly

what is it?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I_Only_Live_Once

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I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
It all depends on how you flirt. If you're cheesy or too cliche, you'll look as sleazy as any other guy.
 
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