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question about pook and flirting

FBA808

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personally, i feel pook as all you need

but there is one contradiction of his i cant figure out, i think its mostly that he used to feel one way but now feels another, but how does pook REALLY feel about:

flirting?

in some posts he says guys SHOULDN'T flirt, just show interest (not tell) but asking for number or date

other posts he says guys SHOULD flirt, just subtly

what is it?
 

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I_Only_Live_Once

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I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
I don't think you need to flirt, unless the girl is a flirty type then you can flirt a little. The problem with flirting a lot is that the girl may think you're sleazy or a player.
It all depends on how you flirt. If you're cheesy or too cliche, you'll look as sleazy as any other guy.
 
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