"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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question about not giving sex when she wanted...

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she basically wanted sex...and stayed the night....but I had no balls and didn't get past her slut defenses....

so she ljbf me....but everytime I see her she still runs games on me like she is testing me....only saw her for a 2 day trip we took as friends...

then ignored her for about a month after and she called back...wanting to get drinks...never happened

but then again her sister is in town and I'm thinkin she wanted to use me for my car to show her around (I'm pretty cynical eh)

but I wanted know if I should pursue this...

My gut says to keep this on the back burner while pursuing others...or should I just forget it.....

actually I'm gonna see what happens after her sister leaves and I call her up...

just wondering if anyone had similar experiences?
 

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I know what your saying...

Just got out of a relationship that started this way ...

She wanted sex ftom the start... I made her wait. She poo-pooed until I gave in (after over a week). I wanted to space things out and not do it so much (I really liked this one and didn't want to rush things). She wasn't pleased and after over a month of bickering, she ended it.

Moral of the story -- Stick to your guns! If I didn't cave in, I would have found out sooner (rather than later) that consistent sex was her agenda, not me. Girls that actually like you (for you) won't mind waiting or spacing things out.

Trust your gut and next her. Save yourself some time and find a good girl that you deserve!
 
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If your gut instinct say move on...move on. Be sure you are following what you think is right, not what you desire.

-Grey Fox
 
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i witheld sex from a girl early this year...and got dumped....stupid wh0re
 
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i didn't withold sex....I wanted it too....but when she said she didn't want it...tho her actions said she did....I didn't have the balls to follow through
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rule of thumb is, don't withhold sex until you've gottenit from her, she may get an impression that you're a shy guy with no balls. after you've had it, you can start to withhold sex for power all you want if that's your thing.
 
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Originally posted by D'light
i witheld sex from a girl early this year...and got dumped....stupid wh0re
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So she's a stupid whore because YOU withheld sex?
 
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