"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Question about Men and Porn

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I need help understanding my boyfriend and guys in general I guess. Last night we watched a porno called "Kelly the Coed #7". There was a hot scene where a woman catches a guy watching her through her bedroom window. She makes him come in to watch her. They both get naked and masturbate while watching each other. It was a scorcher, watching such a private act, to hear them talking to each other and to watch the interaction, even though they weren't having sex with each other.

My boyfriend said that if he wasn't committed to me, he would jump at the chance to do a scene like this in a porn movie. He said it would be f**king hot to do a scene like this, even though he would only get to jack off and he would be on video for people to see. He is a college wrestler, hotter than hell with a personality to die for. He could get all the sex he wanted for free, without ever having to masturbate, especially in a porno for the world to see!!! We asked a couple of his buddies and they said hell yea they would do it also.

So guys, what the hell is up? Why would you be willing to appear in a mutual masturbation scene in a porn movie? Is this a pimpin' thing to do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The people who work for a pornography industry are people who want to make money.
 
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It's all about the dough. It's a stupid idea and I would never do it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rather than sit there and debate what your boyfriend's "hangup" is, why don't you realize that he's just GIVEN you an insight into his fantasies. Why not use that to your advantage? ;)
 
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wait a minute. what happened to the wumman and one guy? i'd have done that, but i wouldn't give the tape to anyone else.

apparently that thing about guys jerking off in a group isn't uncommon. where do they get this information?
 
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This is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. I'd do a porn movie and I don't think showing my wang is such a big thing, but it would be for money only.

Looks like your guy is an exhibitionist-mastrubator. :D ;) Who cares?

Better question is: "why do you feel concerned about it?"

Welcome to the forum btw.
 
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Um....this is a DJ forum. Not the amateur porno audition forum.

1) Get that ^shat^ through your horny head.

2) No.

3) Porn gets places....like your boss's hard drive.

4) No.

5) Stop crapping in our board. You have the toilet for that.

I don't care if you think I'm harsh/mean, because I don't give a rat's ass about your porno flick. Now f*off!
 
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I couldn't get hard with guys watching me and filming me, unless I make my own films and I'm the director/producer/actor.

Is your boyfriend a flamboyant exhibitonist. Only total extroverts would wanna jack off in front of a cam for the world to see.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey... I will admit that i love jerking off even though I get regular sex as of late.
I guess having other people watching you is kinda of a ego trip... especially since you are getting paid for it... hmmmm maybe I should look into porn industry :cool:
 
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It's easy...


The scene:

Girl is in her room and sees guy oogling her -> What most guys do (look at girls and want them if they are hot).

Girl asks guy to come inn -> What most guys dream of, a girl that takes initiativ to **** him then and there.

They both undress and masturbate for eachother -> Girl sort of invites him into her private universe. He is watching her do something VERY PRIVATE, something that is a huge turnon, something that is erotic and sexy and not only that but she wants to watch HIM TOO and they both get off on watching eachother get off.

They are talking about what they are doing, describing, discussing and treating it that way -> Dirty/kinky and a huge turnon.

I'm getting hard just by thinking about it.
 
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