"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

question about kino.

jookins

Don Juan
Joined
May 27, 2005
Messages
66
Reaction score
0
if i see a girl i know, even just barely, lets say in a mall, and she's facing the othr direction and isnt aware of my presence, is it too much to walk over and rather pat her shoulder, but instead give her hip a squeeze. would she get weirded out? is that too much?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

jookins

Don Juan
Joined
May 27, 2005
Messages
66
Reaction score
0
i think it would be good, because everyone else pats the shoulder, its closer and unique, i just want to know the opinion of you guys
 

Paprika

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2002
Messages
43
Reaction score
2
It depends on how you pull it off. It also depends on the girl.

If she's shy/serious and you don't know her very well and you sneak up on her, you might creep her out.

If on the other hand she's outgoing and you've previously established some rapport, then it should be okay.

Just make sure you do it in a friendly, light-hearted manner. Creepiness is obviously a bad thing.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Try it, let us know what happens.
 
Top