"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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question about kino.

jookins

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if i see a girl i know, even just barely, lets say in a mall, and she's facing the othr direction and isnt aware of my presence, is it too much to walk over and rather pat her shoulder, but instead give her hip a squeeze. would she get weirded out? is that too much?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jookins

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i think it would be good, because everyone else pats the shoulder, its closer and unique, i just want to know the opinion of you guys
 

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It depends on how you pull it off. It also depends on the girl.

If she's shy/serious and you don't know her very well and you sneak up on her, you might creep her out.

If on the other hand she's outgoing and you've previously established some rapport, then it should be okay.

Just make sure you do it in a friendly, light-hearted manner. Creepiness is obviously a bad thing.
 

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Try it, let us know what happens.
 
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