Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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question about kino.

jookins

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if i see a girl i know, even just barely, lets say in a mall, and she's facing the othr direction and isnt aware of my presence, is it too much to walk over and rather pat her shoulder, but instead give her hip a squeeze. would she get weirded out? is that too much?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jookins

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i think it would be good, because everyone else pats the shoulder, its closer and unique, i just want to know the opinion of you guys
 

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It depends on how you pull it off. It also depends on the girl.

If she's shy/serious and you don't know her very well and you sneak up on her, you might creep her out.

If on the other hand she's outgoing and you've previously established some rapport, then it should be okay.

Just make sure you do it in a friendly, light-hearted manner. Creepiness is obviously a bad thing.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Try it, let us know what happens.
 
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