Question about DJs character

[frank05]

I know that confidence and high self-esteem is the key to success, but something bothers me:
Basically, what is more attractive, the mysterious and quiet guy, or the funny and talkative guy?
I think of positive and negative things to each one:

@Funny/Talkative:
+ Makes friends easily,is very social,is the center of attention,outgoing,unpredictable,****y and funny,energetic

-Can come off as trying hard and insecure,sometimes as goofy and immature,often isn't taken seriously,being the center of attention/outgoing costs a lot of energy

@Mysterious/Quiet:
+ Mysterious=Attractive, has more time listen/think what to say and then make it count,is taken seriously and is always respected,mature,doesn't have the need to be the center of attention,can't come off as trying hard.

- If he is too quiet,he will come off as boring and average and won't attract any girl(unless he is very good looking),gets to know less people and thus less girls.He could easily intimidate people and it could be more difficult to him to build rapport with girls.

I have tried to figure out a balance of both, but both characters seem very different to me.

 

[Chemistry]

LOL @ Mysterious = Attractive...

It's about having all attributes at your disposal and links in somewhat with the charisma thread...

You need to be funny and how to crack a joke, but the skill is knowing when the situation requires it, and when to pass up a smaller opportunity to crack that one big joke so that you don't look like a jester!

Be talkative... if you're sat in a room, and you want to talk with a HB9 sat next to you then pick up a conversation... but then know when to be quiet, and know that there's no need to broadcast your life to everyone... have those quiet moments which convey that mystery

I've always mixed the above... I much rather choose to sit there, with a surity and wait for a point in a conversation or a situation to arise which means I can enter with something of value...

 

[Lifeforce]

It's not really which one of those who are most attractive, it's about that those different characters will have different women interested. The real question is what YOU want to be. No matter what you do there will be women who are interested in you.

 

[Pugsley_f5]

Bro what you really need is all of those attributes not just one or the other, I think all really True DJ's Have all of those attributes, thats what makes them true DJ's.

 

[skeeloo]

i fall greatly in the quiet and mysterious its natural . not faked many many girls are attracted to me though but sometimes i wish i was more outgoing and loud.

 

[Waking Up]

Talk whenever you want. If you're not forcing it and it's not contrived and you're not going out of your way to impress and you genuinely feel good about yourself, it doesn't matter.