"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question About Bulking

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Im fairly skinny and Im just looking to put on weight and building muscles and all that stuff is of no real interest to me. I just wanna fill out my frame. I dont think Im a hard gainer cause I lost my apptite for a bit awhile back while there was some problems going on. What im asking is will I bulk up faster if do excrise and weight lifting and all of that or will i be alrite if I go the 6 meals a day route and make sure im eating enough calories and stuff.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Unless you have quite good genetics:

Calories overmaintenance with no lifting=Fat gain
Calories overmaintenace with lifting=Muscle and fat gain
Calories overmaintenance with lifting and cardio+carb cutoffs etc=Muscle gain, possibly some fat loss

So yeh, you should lift if you want to put on weight.

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'to fill out your frame' you must gain muscle, otherwise your weight gained will be in the form of bodyfat and go straight to your gut/face/thighs/ass/wherever else you store fat.

you can gain weight, of which a certain proportion will be muscle regardless of whether you train or not, but most will be fat. or you can gain weight, and make it mostly, or even all, muscle.

it is of course easier just to gain mostly fat weight - hit up pizza, soda, McD's, whatever else you like eating.

eating 4k ****ty calories and eating 4k quality calories and add in weight training and cardio will result in the same weight gain either way.. but the QUALITY of the weight gain will be night and day different.

if you want to gain muscular weight, you must train and eat like you do.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Unless you have good genetics:

Calories overmaintenance with no lifting=Fat gain
Calories overmaintenance with lifting and cardio+carb cutoffs etc=Muscle gain

So yeh, you should lift if you want to put on weight.

Quagmire
the Force is strong with this one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Props to you're bad selfs. I shall go straight to the vault to find some working out stuff. Bye Bye Now.
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
Props to you're bad selfs. I shall go straight to the vault to find some working out stuff. Bye Bye Now.
Use the "Where to Start" sticky below it, if you want more information on diet etc use the vault.

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I was looking at the where to start sticky and I picked the excrise routine on the page. The only thing is it has stuff like Tricep excersise and I followed the link to see how to do this and theres about 5 different types of those excersies and its the same for some other ones. Also what does the likes of ''2 x 10 - 15'' by the excersies mean? Any help much appreciated.
 

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When I write 'Triceps Exercise' it's a triceps exercise of your choice, which one you do doesn't really matter - choose skullcrushers, pushdowns, close grip benches etc. You may want to choose an extension instead of a press however given your earlier chest/shoulder work.

2 x 10-15 means do two sets of that exercise and aim to get between 10 and 15 reps on it. Obviously if you can do less than that, you need to decrease the weight, and if you can do more, you should increase it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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