"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you guys ever re-gamed a girl?
I am not sure, how did i do for the first time with this girl when i met her. I met her at a party, we are going to meet again for lunch, which she initiated. She told me she will come up with a day and let me know. is it possible to generate attraction and continue from the beginning. What you guy think. Please suggest
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maximummax said:
Do you guys ever re-gamed a girl?
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Maybe after a year of no contact.

I am not sure, how did i do for the first time with this girl when i met her. I met her at a party, we are going to meet again for lunch, which she initiated. She told me she will come up with a day and let me know.
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That should be your job, not hers. Putting plans into a woman's hands is risky, and she may never get back to you.

is it possible to generate attraction and continue from the beginning. What you guy think. Please suggest
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I don't know what you're trying to say here. A woman's IL doesn't turn on and off like a switch, it fades in and out. If she had high IL a week earlier, it'll still be there but you'll have to turn it up a bit.
 
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Desdinova.....Thank you for the insight

I have her number, should i text her and initiate the date or should i be calling her couple of times before going out, build some more rapport and than ask for lunch. What's your suggestion.

Her interest level seems to be average at this point.
 
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Maximummax said:
Desdinova.....Thank you for the insight

I have her number, should i text her and initiate the date or should i be calling her couple of times before going out, build some more rapport and than ask for lunch. What's your suggestion.

Her interest level seems to be average at this point.
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You met her in person, and got her number.

That's all the rapport you need before setting up Date#1. She saw how you looked. She experienced your personality. She knows you're social (met you at a party).

Face-to-Face always wins over texts and phone calls.

So my advice is, the next time you get in touch with her, just set up the date. "Hey (Girl). (Say something funny about the party). What are you up to this week? Let's go to (Bar/Restaurant)."
 
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