Hey, so I work for an Amazon reseller so I shop daily at stores like marshalls, burlington, etc. Today I went about 2 hrs away to shop at a marshalls and I met a super sweet and GORGEOUS girl that rung me out. We hit it off pretty well and I could tell (and my female coworker said she definitely seemed into me before I even told her that I was interested in the girl or anything like that). I thought about asking her on a date or getting her number but passed up bc of the travel time, even tho I know people who have been together for years but at first lived hours apart. All day I've been thinking about this girl which I've never done before. She was great. Any advice on how to go about asking her out when I go back there in a week or 2 (if she happens to be working xD)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Question about a girl at dept. Store
- Thread starter Vasil
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backseatjuan
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You seen a girl at a store, she smiled at you, and you are making marriage plans, nice man, you're quick. My advice is read this book - https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
Gimple
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If you do meet her again, have a short two minute conversation that demonstrates you're a fun, interesting person, exchange names, then simply ask for her number.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
backseatjuan
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@Vasil
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Will do