Hey, so I work for an Amazon reseller so I shop daily at stores like marshalls, burlington, etc. Today I went about 2 hrs away to shop at a marshalls and I met a super sweet and GORGEOUS girl that rung me out. We hit it off pretty well and I could tell (and my female coworker said she definitely seemed into me before I even told her that I was interested in the girl or anything like that). I thought about asking her on a date or getting her number but passed up bc of the travel time, even tho I know people who have been together for years but at first lived hours apart. All day I've been thinking about this girl which I've never done before. She was great. Any advice on how to go about asking her out when I go back there in a week or 2 (if she happens to be working xD)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Question about a girl at dept. Store
- Thread starter Vasil
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backseatjuan
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You seen a girl at a store, she smiled at you, and you are making marriage plans, nice man, you're quick. My advice is read this book - https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
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If you do meet her again, have a short two minute conversation that demonstrates you're a fun, interesting person, exchange names, then simply ask for her number.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
backseatjuan
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@Vasil
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Will do