Hey, so I work for an Amazon reseller so I shop daily at stores like marshalls, burlington, etc. Today I went about 2 hrs away to shop at a marshalls and I met a super sweet and GORGEOUS girl that rung me out. We hit it off pretty well and I could tell (and my female coworker said she definitely seemed into me before I even told her that I was interested in the girl or anything like that). I thought about asking her on a date or getting her number but passed up bc of the travel time, even tho I know people who have been together for years but at first lived hours apart. All day I've been thinking about this girl which I've never done before. She was great. Any advice on how to go about asking her out when I go back there in a week or 2 (if she happens to be working xD)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Question about a girl at dept. Store
- Thread starter Vasil
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
backseatjuan
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You seen a girl at a store, she smiled at you, and you are making marriage plans, nice man, you're quick. My advice is read this book - https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
As far as this girl goes, you did everything right, she's probably too is thinking of you. Ask her out next time, see what comes out of it. But leave and kill the idea about marriage. She could be a psycho or have a flim. Nothing serious man, just meet to fvck her. If she smiled at you, that's a good sign, she wants to fvck too.
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If you do meet her again, have a short two minute conversation that demonstrates you're a fun, interesting person, exchange names, then simply ask for her number.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
If she gives it to you, you're golden. Text or call her a couple days later to meet up, or whenever you're around her area again.
And if she doesn't give you her number, move on. It's over.
It's simple, really.
And if you don't know how to start and hold a conversation in an attractive way, visit the tips section or start reading the articles on the main site, or the DJ Bible.
All the best.
backseatjuan
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@Vasil
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
The way she saw you the first time, is the way you should interact with her, naturally. Whether you talk to her 2 minutes, or 2 minutes and 20 seconds, or 5 minutes, or get her number or not, makes absolutely no difference. The idea behind your interaction with her should be sex, nothing serious. Go get it boy!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Will do