“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan I.Y.O

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What would be your list of absolutely necessary qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan and in which order of importance would you place them? Feel free to add more and put them in order of most important to least.

Game

Social proof

Red/blue pill awareness

Style

Humor

Looks

Physique

height

Grooming

Ability to handle marriage/divorce (If you eventually plan to get married.)

Ability to attract different types of women

Ability to get laid from new women

Ability to lead and interact with others

Place in life: schooling/ employment /possessions

Spirituality

Ability to control addictions (Drugs/Gambling/Alcohol/ Video games etc.)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
 
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TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks
 

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I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks


I didnt say anything about looks. I said making lists like these are near impossible, because every quality you list, there is a counterexample to every quality. Being alpha is more then simply "acting" like an alpha and memorizing characteristics. Its an internal state if you ask me.
 

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Ability to pickup girls in any type of situation. i.e. club, bar, coffee shop, park, mall, gym, doctors office (hot nurse/Dr.), AA meeting (which I heard was rather easy btw), retail store (hired guns), car wash, etc.
 

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TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
QFT +1 for you buddy ;)



But add to the list abilities.

Use of tools
Stick shift driving for the yanks (the rest of us in the UK are already Alpha as ppphhhwwwwaaaarrrkkk and do this without thinking :D)
Being able to change your own diaper is pretty alpha too
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
That can't be right. These are largely immutable characteristics. That has nothing to do with being a DJ. Why not add 10in **** too? You're just fantasizing at this point :crackup:
I'm not saying every one of those are necessities. Just what others thoughts are in regards to the most important or useful.
 
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