"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan I.Y.O

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What would be your list of absolutely necessary qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan and in which order of importance would you place them? Feel free to add more and put them in order of most important to least.

Game

Social proof

Red/blue pill awareness

Style

Humor

Looks

Physique

height

Grooming

Ability to handle marriage/divorce (If you eventually plan to get married.)

Ability to attract different types of women

Ability to get laid from new women

Ability to lead and interact with others

Place in life: schooling/ employment /possessions

Spirituality

Ability to control addictions (Drugs/Gambling/Alcohol/ Video games etc.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
 
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TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks
 

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I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks


I didnt say anything about looks. I said making lists like these are near impossible, because every quality you list, there is a counterexample to every quality. Being alpha is more then simply "acting" like an alpha and memorizing characteristics. Its an internal state if you ask me.
 

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Ability to pickup girls in any type of situation. i.e. club, bar, coffee shop, park, mall, gym, doctors office (hot nurse/Dr.), AA meeting (which I heard was rather easy btw), retail store (hired guns), car wash, etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
QFT +1 for you buddy ;)



But add to the list abilities.

Use of tools
Stick shift driving for the yanks (the rest of us in the UK are already Alpha as ppphhhwwwwaaaarrrkkk and do this without thinking :D)
Being able to change your own diaper is pretty alpha too
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
That can't be right. These are largely immutable characteristics. That has nothing to do with being a DJ. Why not add 10in **** too? You're just fantasizing at this point :crackup:
I'm not saying every one of those are necessities. Just what others thoughts are in regards to the most important or useful.
 
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