"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan I.Y.O

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
What would be your list of absolutely necessary qualities of a Top Shelf Don Juan and in which order of importance would you place them? Feel free to add more and put them in order of most important to least.

Game

Social proof

Red/blue pill awareness

Style

Humor

Looks

Physique

height

Grooming

Ability to handle marriage/divorce (If you eventually plan to get married.)

Ability to attract different types of women

Ability to get laid from new women

Ability to lead and interact with others

Place in life: schooling/ employment /possessions

Spirituality

Ability to control addictions (Drugs/Gambling/Alcohol/ Video games etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

TheException

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
111
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
 
B

BeDJ

Guest
TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks
 

TheException

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
111
I had a friend who thought this way. He gained 150 lbs and still thinks he is alpha as fvck.

Game > Assets > Looks


I didnt say anything about looks. I said making lists like these are near impossible, because every quality you list, there is a counterexample to every quality. Being alpha is more then simply "acting" like an alpha and memorizing characteristics. Its an internal state if you ask me.
 

plate's_empty

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2013
Messages
476
Reaction score
13
Location
California
Ability to pickup girls in any type of situation. i.e. club, bar, coffee shop, park, mall, gym, doctors office (hot nurse/Dr.), AA meeting (which I heard was rather easy btw), retail store (hired guns), car wash, etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
TheException said:
Being a DJ/Alpha male is not a set of qualities or characteristics. Its cant be boiled down to "some list". Its a mentality....a way of life. The way one sees the world and sees it as his playground.
QFT +1 for you buddy ;)



But add to the list abilities.

Use of tools
Stick shift driving for the yanks (the rest of us in the UK are already Alpha as ppphhhwwwwaaaarrrkkk and do this without thinking :D)
Being able to change your own diaper is pretty alpha too
 

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
That can't be right. These are largely immutable characteristics. That has nothing to do with being a DJ. Why not add 10in **** too? You're just fantasizing at this point :crackup:
I'm not saying every one of those are necessities. Just what others thoughts are in regards to the most important or useful.
 
Top