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Master Don Juan
Nice lift man. I remembered when you hit 200 lbs for a rep a while ago. Keep it up man.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Awhile age I bought some thick leather straps that I wrap around the pegs to raise the bar up about 2 cm, so the J hooks are just barely keeping the bar in. Some cardboard + duct tape would work just as well though.Quagmire911 said:Because of the large J hooks I have to make my upper back less tight when unracking the weight, which ****s things up. And you can't get into position once you have unracked the weight.
Good job on the OHP, Quagmire. I haven't done clean and press in a while. It looks like I've got work to do in order to catch up to ya on the overhead press.Quagmire911 said:Wednesday
Felt pretty funny today having been out last night. Once I got there it went alright. Had some gatorade during the workout, whether that helped, who knows. Here it is:
Overhead press 77.5kgx1 PR (171lbs)- Pretty happy with this. Bw is 185ish. so near bw for a rep. Need to lose 10lbs I reckon to be lean and that would put me closer. Here is the video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XL0LAHNLOt8
Squats 75kgx5x5x5- Big difference on last week, a lot easier. Could have done more, but im sticking to my plan of putting on 5kg a week. Note that this is me coming back from an knee injury- bad tendonitits. The knee is feeling good now though. I anticpate getting back to 100kgx5 pretty quickly and then I'll really have to concentrate on maintaining form, which was the problem in the past. Form felt great today, here it is:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRctInZxaCw
I left at that. I actually felt like I could have done more today, but I had stuff to do. No cardio afterwards as I had done a lot of brisk walking beforehand, probably amounting to about 45 minutes.
Anyway that is all for today, until next time...![]()
Quagmire
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The guy seemed to be using his lower body to propel himself upward, but it is impressive nonetheless. I did them that way for a long time. But about five months ago I began locking my ankles ie keeping my legs straight and locking one ankle around the other. Doing it this way makes the exercise harder because all of the work is done using my upper body. I noticed the difference immediately and I'm doing the same number of reps as I had previously.Quagmire911 said:Monday
Not a bad day today. I'm sick of this lethargy, getting tired easily. I've said before though its seems to come and go. I actually felt a lot fitter after the training today. During and before I felt like a sloth. I'm really stepping it up cardio wise though, I've truly had it with this belly and feeling like an old man. Anyway here it is:
Bench 60x5 70x5 90x1 100kgx5 PR (220lbs)- This is what I was aiming for, pretty pleased. Aiming for a 5/3/1 approach this cycle. Last cycle I was trying the 5% solution but my gains out did the program.
Pullupsx8x7- I've decided these should be a lot better after watching this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boLl8rGhJvE&feature=related
Konstantinov is giving me a lot of motivation at the moment. Strong, excellent endurance and in shape, all at 275lbs. I wonder why I can only do so little at 185-190. I keep blaming the extra 30 or so pounds I've gained on fitness and stuff like a lack of pullups, really I've just been doing as little as possible and focusing soely on strength- which has been a big mistake. I'm not really adverse to the idea of getting bigger although it has never been a focus of mine- as long I have the kind of athleticism I did at 155. The reason I don't is simply a matter of my being a lazy couch potato. If I was this weight at 10% though, that would be a big difference in itself.
Another man, Ross Enamait, who is 175-180 last I checked, has phenonmenal fitness and can do 3/4/5 without even focusing on the big three.
Its time to step it the **** up. I've been doing 15 burpees still the last few mornings and am going to up it to 20. This isn't really meant for much, just to get me started in the morning. I also did 100 rope turns after today's weights and I recovered a lot faster than last week, although lower day does take more out of you. Little boosts to keep the metabolism up and contribute a little to fitness. I am weary of doing too much if I'm going to be doing this every morning. The reason I want to do a little every day is that there that would become routine, and if I slip up with the main sessions at least I won't get back to where I am now.
On top of these small changes, which I'm sure will have a noticeable affect from doing nothing at all, I'll be adding in two higher intensity sessions as a minimum. I'll also be doing stuff like cutting the grass etc, which should contribute a little as well.
Hopefully I can do this whilst getting stronger, but to be honest its probably more of a goal over the next 3-4 weeks, maybe more to get the fitness up. And it may take the CNS time to adjust to the workload. I'll see what happens. In the end the extra work capacity will benefit the weights. I'm not looking to be insanely fit, although that would be good. The goal is to get to a reasonable level and then build on that slowly whilst getting stronger. A part of this as I've said is also getting back down to 10-12% or so. I don't know where I am. I've slacked in the last few weeks, but I didn't really have anything set out. What I'll be doing is:
Mon-Upper
Tue-HIIT
Wed-Lower
Thur/Fri-HIIT
I've been drinking less when I've been drinking although the frequency is still to much some weeks. It's still down on the start of the year, so I'm heading in the right direction. I'm also keeping any cheat meals to mainly post workout, and If I do cheat keeping the portions smaller. That's a reasonable step in the last week or so, enjoying the odd cheat meal but not going overboard. You can still enjoy some junk, just not 500+ calories of junk. I need to also make sure and hit the carb cut offs which can be a problem. I'm very zig-zaggy with that.
Anyway this has turned into a novel. I'll probably update with the HIIT. That is all for today, until next time...![]()
Quagmire
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.