Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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you did, but 90 x 15 is still a PR. I'd take weight over reps anyday especially on a higher rep set.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh I've learned, I'm just a lazy c***. My diet is one that doesn't require a lot of effort on my part.Warboss Alex said:And you have 10lbs to lose and you're worrying about calories? Have you learned nothing?
What sort of diet are you gonna do?
There in lies the problem. I can't afford not to eat carbs right now.Warboss Alex said:That's way too many carbs if you're not going to be doing much cardio, even for someone of your metabolism.
You can cut just fine on four meals a day if they are properly structured. I'd fat load the first couple of meals then use leaner proteins later in the day (with all the veggies you can eat of course).
No carbs except post workout or maybe not even then. You can probably factor in some junk once a week at your level of leanness but I wouldn't do the bacon double every post workout.
Might have to take this discussion to PM if the post limit comes into play
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yeah, but you can afford to 'get a buzz' and eat double bacon XL's 3x a weekQuagmire911 said:There in lies the problem. I can't afford not to eat carbs right now.
Well I can get a buzz twice a week for under £5, which doesn't make much difference, (you aren't getting my cider).Warboss Alex said:yeah, but you can afford to 'get a buzz' and eat double bacon XL's 3x a week![]()
I am no longer syth, but jedi...MrS said:8 quid a week can get you 12 frozen chops (aldi for the win), thats 4-6 meals mate.
im sure the burgers and booze taste good but sometimes you need to make sacrifices. get to where you want to get, and then reward yourself, it'll make them all the sweeter!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.